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Post by DEMANSTARE LUL on May 11, 2015 22:00:12 GMT
3. Being an absolute dick to people that I know hate themselves. Either because they have low self-esteem and act stupidly because of it, or because their physically weak, or if they're loud/obnoxious, un-funny but they think they're funny etc.. I just can't help developing a superiority complex, even though I hate myself for it. This behaviour better not make its way into this crew and on this forum. It won't. It's a real-life issue. It's strange how I manage to keep myself on equal level behind the safety of the Internet, but not with people that I find strange face-to-face.
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Post by Selephia on May 11, 2015 22:13:15 GMT
This behaviour better not make its way into this crew and on this forum. It won't. It's a real-life issue. It's strange how I manage to keep myself on equal level behind the safety of the Internet, but not with people that I find strange face-to-face. This kind of thing makes me sick reading it .... why would you be a dick to someone that you find strange face to face ? It sounds to me like your like one of those morons i hated in school, that bullied me all my life because i was different than most others. Do you find enjoyment from making other peoples lives a misery ?
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Post by Xepyā
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on May 12, 2015 0:26:05 GMT
So there was some posts on RPGs. I can probably say I exceeded that bar a fair bit. That being, I've built my own forum RPG around 4 years ago, died about the last year (And proceeded to get a sequel spinoff too that's active right now). Based on Need For Speed. Haven't even gotten to the bad part yet. Started pretty normal, characters, random drama that made little sense, short posts that often contradicted someone else's posts... Well, I built it into a thing where people would post 10k+ words posts "regularly", has an indepth (unrealistic) car tuning system custom made for the RPG, several vehicle balancing formulas based off stats that were built, various spreadsheets keepings specs and stats, a psuedo table top mechanic for races, a rather complex overarching plot (that kind of imploded on itself), many many different complex character relations between player characters and Non player characters, and well, the list goes on. It's a huge thing that I would not talk about in real life. And somehow I hooked several people into it. I'd say that is definitely my guilty pleasure, all stemmed from my computer not being able to run games properly at one point in time. And the thing with using female characters? I definitely had that, though I justify it by saying its weird to have only male characters around anyways. I'll admit, its not that bad for me, since I don't mind building a character of either gender, even if more of my female ones are more popular so to say. If this sounds like your cup of tea, you can take a look over here (Just the tip of the iceberg). I'm not going to stop you. I at least stopped running these, but hanging out with the same bunch of guys for several years, chatting pretty much every night... I won't just quit this RPG unless we all quit.
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Post by DEMANSTARE LUL on May 12, 2015 5:50:27 GMT
It won't. It's a real-life issue. It's strange how I manage to keep myself on equal level behind the safety of the Internet, but not with people that I find strange face-to-face. This kind of thing makes me sick reading it .... why would you be a dick to someone that you find strange face to face ? It sounds to me like your like one of those morons i hated in school, that bullied me all my life because i was different than most others. Do you find enjoyment from making other peoples lives a misery ? I'm not like that to your average... "Loser?" Just the kind that either are dicks themselves, because they feel helpless otherwise, or people that think high of themselves and act out of their depth. I should've written "was being a dick" btw, since it was more of a thing when I was younger.
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Post by tjezcā» on May 12, 2015 7:23:58 GMT
This kind of thing makes me sick reading it .... why would you be a dick to someone that you find strange face to face ? It sounds to me like your like one of those morons i hated in school, that bullied me all my life because i was different than most others. Do you find enjoyment from making other peoples lives a misery ? I'm not like that to your average... "Loser?" Just the kind that either are dicks themselves, because they feel helpless otherwise, or people that think high of themselves and act out of their depth. I should've written "was being a dick" btw, since it was more of a thing when I was younger. Haha, you would've been the type of person I would pick on just a tad more than everyone else. I was that type of bully that stood up for people that were treated differently, giving that person the treatment they deserved. Oh, I also picked on people that were bullied a lot, but they did not mind (I'm truly sure) because I did the same thing to anyone else, making myself not a bully, but just an annoying twat
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Post by Hale on May 12, 2015 11:55:05 GMT
Could we stay on topic pls.
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Post by Renegade1911 on May 12, 2015 16:28:19 GMT
It won't. It's a real-life issue. It's strange how I manage to keep myself on equal level behind the safety of the Internet, but not with people that I find strange face-to-face. This kind of thing makes me sick reading it .... why would you be a dick to someone that you find strange face to face ? It sounds to me like your like one of those morons i hated in school, that bullied me all my life because i was different than most others. Do you find enjoyment from making other peoples lives a misery ? Hey, if you feel the need to dispute something people shared on here, keep to PMs, please. We said we wouldn't judge, so let's give EVERYONE the same treatment, regardless of what they decided to share. DEMANSTARE LUL C'mon bro, sticking your thing onto an exhaust pipe of a car? How could you? That innocent thing has no way to defend itself, and you just go and violate its dignity like nothing's happening? That's cheap, man! ...seriously though, props for sharing something actually personal.
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Post by Selephia on May 12, 2015 23:02:51 GMT
This kind of thing makes me sick reading it .... why would you be a dick to someone that you find strange face to face ? It sounds to me like your like one of those morons i hated in school, that bullied me all my life because i was different than most others. Do you find enjoyment from making other peoples lives a misery ? Hey, if you feel the need to dispute something people shared on here, keep to PMs, please. We said we wouldn't judge, so let's give EVERYONE the same treatment, regardless of what they decided to share. DEMANSTARE LUL C'mon bro, sticking your thing onto an exhaust pipe of a car? How could you? That innocent thing has no way to defend itself, and you just go and violate its dignity like nothing's happening? That's cheap, man! ...seriously though, props for sharing something actually personal. Lol ? im not disputing anything. I said what everyone was thinking, before someone else replied to it. For the record you are right about not judging people on here. We shouldn't and i don't judge anyone on what they look like, how they represent themselves and what they say. But there is a fine line between what you should say and what you shouldn't say. (for example) If it is offensive or rude. I found this offensive and i didn't want to let it stand as acceptable. Judging by the many likes my post got, others found it offensive as well. Forgive me if im wrong but it sounds to me like your trying to back him up ? I don't see why anyone would condone what he said.
Also; if i keep having to waste my time typing replies that i shouldn't have to be doing (like this one). Im just going to wash my hands of this crew. I don't reply to that many things, and more often than not people feel the need to do these kind of posts shoving what i just said right back in my face. Evidently i don't like it one bit. Maybe you should stop and think before you type and read your own advice about treating everyone equal.
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2015 7:41:05 GMT
Hey, if you feel the need to dispute something people shared on here, keep to PMs, please. We said we wouldn't judge, so let's give EVERYONE the same treatment, regardless of what they decided to share. DEMANSTARE LUL C'mon bro, sticking your thing onto an exhaust pipe of a car? How could you? That innocent thing has no way to defend itself, and you just go and violate its dignity like nothing's happening? That's cheap, man! ...seriously though, props for sharing something actually personal. Lol ? im not disputing anything. I said what everyone was thinking, before someone else replied to it. For the record you are right about not judging people on here. We shouldn't and i don't judge anyone on what they look like, how they represent themselves and what they say. But there is a fine line between what you should say and what you shouldn't say. (for example) If it is offensive or rude. I found this offensive and i didn't want to let it stand as acceptable. Judging by the many likes my post got, others found it offensive as well. Forgive me if im wrong but it sounds to me like your trying to back him up ? I don't see why anyone would condone what he said.
Also; if i keep having to waste my time typing replies that i shouldn't have to be doing (like this one). Im just going to wash my hands of this crew. I don't reply to that many things, and more often than not people feel the need to do these kind of posts shoving what i just said right back in my face. Evidently i don't like it one bit. Maybe you should stop and think before you type and read your own advice about treating everyone equal. IMO replying with this kind of comment makes you just as offensive as DEMANSTARE LUL. Also if you don't want to write replies, but still choose to do so, then you can't really complain about it.
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Post by tjezcā» on May 13, 2015 7:51:15 GMT
Can a guilty pleasure be flirting with girls while in a relationship? Don't mean any harm.. It's just a lot of fun!
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2015 7:59:55 GMT
Can a guilty pleasure be flirting with girls while in a relationship? Don't mean any harm.. It's just a lot of fun! I think that is perfectly fine. But it really all depends on your partner. If your partner isn't ok with it, then you shouldn't do it. But IMO flirting is just another way to interact and socialize with people.
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Post by Renegade1911 on May 13, 2015 9:45:04 GMT
Hey, if you feel the need to dispute something people shared on here, keep to PMs, please. We said we wouldn't judge, so let's give EVERYONE the same treatment, regardless of what they decided to share. DEMANSTARE LUL C'mon bro, sticking your thing onto an exhaust pipe of a car? How could you? That innocent thing has no way to defend itself, and you just go and violate its dignity like nothing's happening? That's cheap, man! ...seriously though, props for sharing something actually personal. Lol ? im not disputing anything. I said what everyone was thinking, before someone else replied to it. For the record you are right about not judging people on here. We shouldn't and i don't judge anyone on what they look like, how they represent themselves and what they say. But there is a fine line between what you should say and what you shouldn't say. (for example) If it is offensive or rude. I found this offensive and i didn't want to let it stand as acceptable. Judging by the many likes my post got, others found it offensive as well. Forgive me if im wrong but it sounds to me like your trying to back him up ? I don't see why anyone would condone what he said.
Also; if i keep having to waste my time typing replies that i shouldn't have to be doing (like this one). Im just going to wash my hands of this crew. I don't reply to that many things, and more often than not people feel the need to do these kind of posts shoving what i just said right back in my face. Evidently i don't like it one bit. Maybe you should stop and think before you type and read your own advice about treating everyone equal. I absolutely get you. But what people do outside this crew is noone's business, as long as it doesn't affect the crew. If we tried to bend the people here to our will, the crew would fall apart quickly. Obviously, if someone'd share something horrible, we'd probably shun him, but DEMANSTARE chose to share something he's ashamed of, after all this thread isn't called "I'm a dick, commend me". This thread is sharing personal stuff and one really shouldn't fear scrutiny or even flaming for doing so. I guess you could say I'm trying to back up his right to speak freely. But I'd to the same to you if someone came here and was like hurr durr ponies are stupid you big nerd. So c'mon. No talks of quitting the crew, let's just be friends again. That's what this thread is about, after all, getting to know the people on here better.
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Post by DEMANSTARE LUL on May 13, 2015 15:37:38 GMT
It won't. It's a real-life issue. It's strange how I manage to keep myself on equal level behind the safety of the Internet, but not with people that I find strange face-to-face. This kind of thing makes me sick reading it .... why would you be a dick to someone that you find strange face to face ? It sounds to me like your like one of those morons i hated in school, that bullied me all my life because i was different than most others. Do you find enjoyment from making other peoples lives a misery ? As I said, it's an ISSUE. I want to be rid of it. And it's not like I LOOK FOR this kind of trouble. It's just that when someone is talking big but I know that they are actually unsure of themselves/weak/stupid/mean, I just can't help but comment on it. Normally people will laugh with me as well. And it is especially bad if they are talking big to me. At that point I can go all out and unknowingly hurt these people. Teenage years are hard for me (socially). I always tend to square up with these people, even if I despise them, and I really wish I wasn't so quick to judge, but well. I guess we were all born faulty. And this is a problem of mine. So please don't call me out on being a douche.
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Post by JamieJones77 on May 17, 2015 22:10:30 GMT
Still liking things that I did as kid, Pokemon, digimon, watching old wwe.
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Post by kidbenin on May 17, 2015 23:32:27 GMT
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