Let's put this to rest

So I have watched just several hours worth of videos on the wheels in GTAV online. After all the reading, all the watching and finally boughy gave me the best answer to which was concluded to buy off road tires basically every time, with very very specific examples of when not to. But now I come back to ask another question. With the release of these new vehicles with new interactions with curbs, I now would like to know what is the verdict on wheels now? Because if I am going to use the vagner, though I like high end tires, off road tires are the wheels to go with so that I can curb boost as well as not get thrown off course as bad when I do hit a curb. But the new vehicles are designed in such a way that you don't want to hit curbs, and they actually have it to where they are slowing lap times down for trying to curb boost. In these cases is it better to go back to a tuner or high end wheel than to stay with the off road? Any feedback would be great because this game's physics is really intriguing and I want to learn as much as I can to be able to play catch up with the guys who have been racing their whole lives, or at least for a longer time than I have had GTA V.